A couple years ago, The Washington Post published an article that talked about picking nudge words for each new year rather than resolutions. A word to encompass your intention and focus for the year ahead. This really resonated with me as I’ve never been one to get into the whole resolution thing. I prefer to set goals whenever I need to and start right away rather than wait for a specific time to make a change. However, I am a big fan of having intentions to help me stay focused on what’s important to me. Last year, my word was Openness.

My intention with that was to work on staying open to what life presented to me: new ideas, new perspectives, new paths. I wanted to remain open to my inner voice, to really listen to my body and soul and act accordingly. Overall, I did a pretty good job. It’s not an easy thing to remain open, and there were many times that I pushed back and resisted what I was feeling or what I knew needed to be done. In the end, openness won, and I find myself beginning this new year about to embark on a brand-new journey yet again. Which brings me to my new nudge word: Surrender.

I have to surrender the need to know. Surrender to what I know to be true from years of experience- that everything always works out for the best.

Over the next five months my entire life will change: I’m leaving the classroom with no idea what’s next. I know what I want my life to look like, but no idea how to get there or where I will end up. I’m leaving my home and moving again to be closer to my family and friends. I have no idea where I’ll be living yet, but I know I want to be with the people that care for me. I am choosing people over place as I know that is what’s most important. The right people can make any place better.

This transition comes with a lot of unknowns right now. Something I am not fond of lol. I am a planner and like to know what’s coming, but at this point, I really can’t. It’s just too early in the process. And I also know if I don’t just surrender and let it all unfold, this whole thing will be a million times more difficult. If I try to force things, rush things, control everything, or resist what’s laid before me- I will suffer. I have to just trust that it will all turn out ok. And it will, of course. Things always do.

I have to trust. I have to let go. I must surrender and flow.

Here’s to an exciting year ahead full of possibilities and adventures!